Comments on: Dreaming About Ex-Boyfriends,Girlfriends, Husbands, or Wives

By: Monica

Monica — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 14:35:42 +0000

I divorced my ex-husband 3 years ago. I am in another relationship and extremely happy with him. For about the last 3 weeks I have been having dreams about my ex-husband. In my dreams I’m no longer with my current boyfriend and my ex comes back and wants to get back together with me. In my dream I say no that I’m happy by myself. But he still comes and visits and talks to me in my dreams. He even tries to hang out with me and my friends. What does that mean??

By: amy

amy — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 14:21:49 +0000

i had a dream where my ex and i were hanging out and he started crying saying he had made a mistake and he was in love with me although he broke up with me for another girl. it was so real i couldn’t believe it was a dream we’ll i mean i knew i was dreaming but wow…. i just found it to be really odd because i never dream about him.

By: miranda

miranda — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 16:16:45 +0000

The night before last I had an awful nightmare. It was about my ex-boyfriend who I had dated on and off for 6 years. In reality he was orally abusive, cheated on me, stole things from me, took money, you get the idea. So not a man I want back.
In the dream, I was at the gym talking to a friend who I am still friends with (in reality) but is also my ex’s best friend. We were waiting for a class to start but then he turned his head towards the room we were waiting for and noticed my ex. He told me, and becoming extremely nervous I ran for somewhere to hide. No matter how far I ran I couldn’t get away. I found a room that they were just finishing to re-build. Since I was lost I tried asking someone in the room that I thought could help me. Looking around if my ex was in the room, but having a hard time since I didn’t have my glasses or my contacts on, I could barely see. I went into the room anyway, and asked the man for the way out. He took his sweet time explaining the directions. I could hear voices in the background and I heard his, my ex’s.
Then the man I was talking to said my name to grab back my attention and my ex noticed me for the first time in the dream. I told the man I had to go and I bolted. Not being able to see well, I scrambled for a way out.
I finally found a hallway and ran. I could feel my ex following me. He was screaming my name but I wouldn’t stop. Then I was on my college campus grounds in Vermont.
I finally found a room, the men’s locker room, where I knew someone who would stop him, my brother who despises my ex. But he is no where near as strong as my ex is. The only man I trusted to be able to get rid of him is my current boy-friend who is a prop in rugby, which requires you to be bigger and in excellent shape. Even though I tried to find him he was no where in site. My brother saw my ex and started screaming at him; I started crawling on the floor to find a way out. As soon as I got up to open the door I woke up.
I haven’t been with my ex for over a year now and I stopped having nightmares of him a while back. So why am I having them again? And why are they so vivid? I woke up crying and panting, and I don’t know how to get rid of these dreams. Please help.

By: Brian

Brian — Thu, 05 May 2011 17:54:00 +0000

I am also having strange dreams, if someone can help. I dated a girl in high school for a couple years, and she was what you would probably call my first love. After the relationship ended, we remained friends until years later, when a girl I was dating basically made me choose one or the other.. I chose her, which looking back was probably the wrong decision. Anways, fast forward 9 years. I haven’t talked to my high school sweetheart in 9 years, and I’ve been (for the most part) happily married for almost 4 of those years. I keep dreaming of my high school sweetheart, and have no idea why.
I haven’t been thinking about her until I wake up from a dream about her. Last night I dreamt that I was in my next door neighbors house, and one of my other friends ex’s showed up at the door looking for him. We hid, and watched through a window. When she left, she was with my ex from high school. I ran out the door to talk to her, as I hadn’t seen her in literally YEARS. She cried and was begging me to leave my wife and just run away with her, telling me she was still in love with me.
Very vivid dream, and I have no idea what caused it. It’s thrown my whole day off. I looked up my ex and she’s engaged, and like I said, I’m happily married. My wife does once in a blue moon refer to my ex as “the one that got away” when she’s joking with me, but not anytime lately. Any thoughts?

By: Jackie

Jackie — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 23:48:34 +0000

I have a wonderfulmarriage now…I am I love with my husband, but I have a reoccurring dream 2 times a month at least for 13 years straight…that I’m in love with my ex and he with me..and my heart is breaqking and exploding with love for him….in the dream it is never sexual…but always about love…..I’m confused because I can’t stand this person in reality…

By: Amanda

Amanda — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 16:13:13 +0000

So on two separate occasions last night I had dreams of my husband with girls from his past. We moved away from home and don’t see anyone anymore which I really like because everywhere we went we’d see someone he knew and typically they were girls. Moving on, so we went to the high school he went to because he is a big lacrosse alum and likes to see where the team is going and how things have changed. So we go there and for some reason I go into the girls locker room and he says he’s going to go skate these stairs and I asked him to wait for me because I had never been there before and all the classes were about to be let out so I knew it would be that much harder to find him. I text him and ask him where he is and he says on the stairs with alli and Vanessa who are both girls he’s dated. At this rate I’m furious and it feels so real I feel my body getting super angry. I walk out there and he’s smiling at me and these girls are like wow,you’ve grown up so much. You’re married and having a baby blah blah and he’s the type of person who loves the attention especially from people who had some sort of importance in his life because he likes the whole this could had been you factor. And he’s standing there talking to these girls and I walk down the stairs cause I’m so mad and start walking home he doesn’t even realize I left because he’s too busy bragging about himself and loving the attention from the girls. I don’t get it!
Then the second dream is kinda a part 2 of all those events cause we end up meeting his art teacher and she tells us she set up an art gallery in this house and we should check it out. So there is like 3 cars of people that go including that alli girl again and break into this art gallery. We are all looking at the art and talking whatever and the cops come and I guess I was sleeping when this happened cause I’m pregnant and do that a lot. So they are all eating breakfast and I wake up far away from everyone else and see everyone laughing and talking and my husband has that girl siting on his lap and they are laughing and all I can do is watch. I go numb and it’s like I don’t even exist. I don’t know what any of this means but it scares me because we are so young and married and now having a child I feel like this isn’t where he wants to be.

By: jesse

jesse — Fri, 15 Apr 2011 13:11:57 +0000

i keep dreaming about my ex wife but i dont lik eher, i hate her guts but why am i still draming bout her, am i over or what i want to know

By: Louanne Corak

Louanne Corak — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 07:03:14 +0000

Hey, I was very blown away with that. I told my friend and she said the same. I would like to hear more on this. Excellent!

By: kris

kris — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 16:23:55 +0000

MY.DREAM.HAD.MY EX GF AN HER NEW GF IN IT…I DNT UNDERSTAND KUZ I HATE HER NEW GF…I need answers

By: stephany

stephany — Sat, 05 Mar 2011 16:14:18 +0000

this was very very helpful. I had a dream about my ex a few days ago, freaked out. But after reading this article i know why i had the dream.