Dream Prophesy

hello
lately ive been having dreams and day dreams about me and my best friend lying
on her bed and making out its i know om proberly reading to much into it but its
starting to drive me crazy not knowing what it means please help me does it mean
i want something to happen??
thanks

This is a common type of dream that usually symbolizes a longing for something and/or someone. It could or could not be for the friend, herself. The fact that the dream is also manifesting itself in daydreams seems to indicate that she is involved in some way, though.

You could be longing for a closer friendship with this person, or longing to tell her a secret. Also, she may have something you, yourself, wish you had - whether it’s her family, loved one(s), job, or even a personality or physical trait.

If it were a full-out desire for the friend - you would be more than aware of this yourself, of course, without a dream or day dream telling you…so don’t let the dream get you too rattled.

Think about people that you’ve been physically attracted to in the past - you knew it without dreaming about it, right? Now think about people you’ve had romantic-type dreams about - they don’t always involve people you’d even WANT to kiss.

I’ve been noticing a common theme in my dreams lately. It’s frustrating me because I know there’s a reason but I can’t figure it out.

Thank you so much for your help.

What a frustrating thing to be dealing with - I’m so sorry that you’re having such sad dreams. Let’s take a really good look at them and see if maybe we can find their meaning. A lot of times when you “get” the meaning of a dream or dreams and their symbolisms, they’ll fade off and go away. It’s sort of like they say, “Point made. My work here is done.” We definitely want yours to make a hasty retreat!

Initially, when I read the first paragraph of your e-mail I thought your dreams had to do with contentment and peace of mind. Then, as I read the details of the dream and picked up on the overall emotions of your words, I realized that it goes deeper than that.

Autumn is a beautiful, amazing time of year (my favorite, for sure). But it’s also a time when those of us who have lost loved ones have our own special problems to deal with. Think about it - beginning around September and carrying through January 1, emphasis everywhere is on fun, families, and happiness. That sounds like a recipe for sheer happiness, doesn’t it?! The thing is, if we have family members who are missing from the picture, we’re always aware of that. Halloween brings back memories of fun with family, Thanksgiving and Christmas - even more so. Family meals, family traditions, shopping for family members - it all centers around the family. If any are missing, we’re left with a feeling of sadness that we can’t put our finger on. We don’t want to talk about it to anyone else because we don’t want to “bring them down” or make them think we’re trying to spoil the festivities.

The heartfelt moments can sometimes feel more like heartbreak.

I believe that your dreams are a result of this nostalgic time. I think that the fact that you KNEW you couldn’t have what you wanted in your dreams illustrates that you realize you can’t possibly have what you really, deep down want - a restored family.

Another perfect symbolism is the desire for a baby. As you say, the baby, itself, wasn’t something you’d want. I think the baby simply illustrated family. You wanted to “add to” your family but it wasn’t with the addition of a new baby. You want to add to your family by bringing back the person you lost.

Finally, the hospital - another perfect example of dream symbolism. Your subconcious desire to return to the past and change things….to make the loss of your loved one result in a different, happy ending. The desire to “run” the hospital shows a desire to “make things right.”

I’d almost be willing to bet that you’ve recently lost a loved one and that the last place you saw them was in a hospital.

I can only imagine what a hard time you’re going through. You want to feel nothing but happiness and excitement with your little boys. I’m sure Halloween and Christmas are very much on their minds! I hope that you can take a little bit of comfort in the fact that what you’re feeling is very normal. All around you, people are going through the same thing. It doesn’t matter if they lost their loved ones 10 years ago or 1 year ago - to a very real extent, it always feels like yesterday.

If you were to approach the subject with people close to you, I guarantee you’ll find sympathetic ears - everyone has been there (or is there). My advice is to live your life as loudly as possible! Have fun at every opportunity and don’t feel guilty about doing so. Remember that right now you’re making the memories with your sons that’ll stay with them the rest of their lives. Try not to think as much about who’s not there as you do who is there, but don’t try to completely shut your memories out, either. There’s nothing wrong with missing loved ones - it only proves that they were loved ones.

Another suggestion: At night, right before you go to bed - say out loud, even - what you’re thankful for. Think about your little men (and your not so little man!), their smiles and laughter. Think about what special things you can make for them this Halloween. Get crazy with your decorations - all 3 of them will get a kick out of it!

I hope to hear from you again really soon, I’ll be thinking about you!
Sweet dreams (and that’s an order),
Joi